Living In A Toxic World?

Learn To Fulfill Your Potential To Change Your Life

 Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.” Daniell Koepke

Life’s greatest challenge is your own potential !

 It’s sad, but true living up to our own potential takes guts. No matter what you face in life, your biggest battle is going to be the one you have against yourself.      We can accomplish so much more, if we merely believed in our ability to do so for various reasons.

·         No one knows you better than you know yourself.  Accordingly, you are bettered prepared to go up against yourself than anyone else.

·         When you fight with yourself there are no barriers as to what is fair, unfair and void of any boundaries. 

·         Your potential is always changing. The more you achieve,  the more  potential you develop.  In other words, when you accomplish one goal, then you may keep moving toward another one.

·         More times than not, we underestimate their capacity to change. We focus on their limitations instead of their potential.  

The fact is that we are what we think about the most.  If we think we are in some way limited or inadequate, then we will be limited.  If we think we have impending possibilities, then we will have higher potential. The keys to change is, first to believe that we are capable of change. Next belief in ourselves, our abilities, our talents, and our ideas are most valuable tools. We must have integrity to change your life. You need the courage to tell yourself no, when others are saying yes. Have the courage to face the truth about ourselves, no matter how difficult it might be. Do the right thing because it is right.

Take responsibility for your life.  As our world change very few people are willing to take responsibility for their own actions. If we are not willing to accept responsibility, then someone else must, even if it is to simply accept blame. You need to be aware.  If you don’t pay attention to what’s going on, someone else will take responsibility for you and will control your world.

You are not only responsible for what you say, but also for what you do not say (Martin Luther). Not only are you accountable for your life, but doing the best with your life in the moment.  Freedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves (Friedrich Nietzsche). Forget who is responsible for whatever and simply realize that if you do your best to put things together right now, you will be ready for what lies ahead. . When opportunity comes, you’ll land all over it, because you are ready to fulfill  your own potential.


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-Dr. Tanya Gilbert